To grow in life, you need to see everything that is returning to you is not you. This is called your shadow self or soul mirror.
Your sun sign in astrology shows how you appear in the world. This includes the actions you take and how you conduct yourself in life.
But when you meet your shadow self or soul mirror in someone else, then you are presented with the qualities that you can return to you to move forward more quickly.
Your shadow self is always your opposite or sister sign. What it really represents are the qualities and characteristics that help you balance.
According to astrology and spirituality TikToker @tarotbybronx, your shadow side “tells you what you need to do as a person.”
Interestingly, your opposite sign rules your seventh house in astrology, representing your romantic relationships.
It’s all because in order to grow, to feel truly fulfilled, you need your balance.
You and your opposite sign can be each other’s shadows, but you also make up where one lacks and vice versa.
According to astrology, your ‘shadow self,’
Aries and Libra
Aries and Libra have an interesting relationship because each of them has a lot to learn from the other.
The shadow of Aries is impressionable and self-centered so Libra can show them how to slow down, think things through, and make decisions that are fair to all involved.
Libra on the other hand can sacrifice themselves in the name of keeping the peace so Aries can show Libra how to stand up for themselves so they can be better advocates for their needs.
Aries can also often be more temperamental while Libra is known as a peacemaker. Together, they can show each other the balance to spread between others and allow themselves to move above all.
The relationship between these two allows each to embrace their shortcomings whether it is better to focus on themselves for Aries or Libra is able to prioritize themselves with more confidence.
Taurus and Scorpio
Scorpio is often on a roller coaster of emotions as they seek out the most intense moments in life, while Taurus prefers stability at all costs.
Together, Scorpio can learn to embrace the peace that comes from healthy situations and Taurus can understand that stability doesn’t always equal the situation in which they should live.
Taurus can seem unemotional at times but because Scorpio is such an intense sign, they can help Taurus open up and tap into their greater depth. But Scorpio can also learn how to simply enjoy life’s simple pleasures instead of seeking excitement or chaos to achieve an emotional high.
Together, they can balance each other emotionally, helping each to embrace their emotions but also at peace.
Gemini and Sagittarius
Gemini is known as the most flighty and communicative of all the signs. But Sagittarius is usually quiet, strong in his opinion and truth.
For these two signs, Gemini is able to challenge some of Sagittarius’ outlandish beliefs while Sagittarius can help Gemini become more defined in their own truth.
Sagittarius are often stuck in their comfort zones, although they love to explore and travel the world. But Gemini sometimes stays in one place too long.
In this relationship Sagittarius can challenge Gemini to be more assertive and Gemini helps Sagittarius embrace their adventurous side. Together, these signs support each other with new beliefs, a deeper sense of identity, and a life full of possibilities.
Cancer and Capricorn
Cancer and Capricorn are known as the mother and father of the Zodiac. One is very emotional while the other is more practical, facing reality. Still, there are valuable lessons to be learned from each.
Cancer can help Capricorn get beyond the materialistic view of success and learn to be more emotionally intelligent. They help Capricorn slow down at work and prioritize family and relationship time as this is what will help Capricorn feel stronger and fulfilled.
On the other hand, Capricorn can help Cancer manage their emotions and discover the greater reality they represent. Because home is often a priority for Cancers, Capricorns often teach them to follow their own dreams and not rely on others for validation or fulfillment.
They actually complement each other in the best ways so that emotions do not dominate, and life can be successfully balanced in all areas.
Leo and Aquarius
Leo is the sign most known for following its heart, however, it is also associated with seeing more than substance.
Aquarius wants to always follow the path of the rebel even if it does not mean honoring himself.
For Leo, Aquarius shows how to make decisions for yourself in the most authentic way, regardless of how it appears to others in the world.
Leo teaches Aquarius how to be true to themselves and feel their heart more deeply. As free spirited as Aquarius can be, it is known as a zodiac sign that is very emotionally detached. But Leo helps Aquarius feel more grounded, so they can balance independence with determination.
Together they help each other to live more fully and authentically. They help each other find their true center, their heart, and not let anyone else stop them from their truth, no matter what that means.
Virgo and Pisces
The two most likely shadow signs are Virgo and Pisces. These two are actually contradictory.
Virgo is incredibly analytical, planning every aspect of life in minute detail. For them, safety is in planning and knowing what to expect.
But Pisces is the opposite. They can be so free, spiritual, and with the flow that they achieve a lot.
Pisces teaches Virgo that they can’t be logical all the time and especially in emotional matters, they are better off if they just go with the flow. This allows Virgo to better tap into their intuition so they can balance their emotional self with their logical self.
For Pisces, Virgo helps them learn to break things down into smaller steps so they can achieve the big dreams they have. Virgo teaches Pisces to focus on the more practical aspects of life, to plan things and not just believe that everything will be okay in the end.
By incorporating these lessons into their lives, each sign can embrace life and take responsibility for what is in their control.
Kate Rose Is an artist, author, spiritual astrologer, relationship and life coach, and motivational speaker. For more of his work, visit his website.
